Location Changes

Moving from one place to the next is challenging. It can be hard to cope with these new homes or schools. Just remember moving does not mean you shouldn’t love one parent more than the other.

Living in Two Homes

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Now that your parents are divorced, they will not be living together. You will be able to still live with them and they will try to work out a schedule that they think fits you and all your activities best. It is ok to feel frustrated and disappointed at the fact that you have to change your life and live in two homes. It is acceptable that you feel this way along with many other emotions, just remember to express those emotions and ask for help.

New School

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Now that you live in two homes, you might have to move to a new school. A new school could mean making new friends, new classes, and even new clubs or sports teams. It may seem like you are losing a lot, but you can stay connected with all of your friends. You could hangout with them, call/text them or become pen pals. During the summer, you could have a sleepover or go on a trip with your friends and family. New people doesn’t mean losing the old ones.

Activities

Are you scared or worried that your activities might change? Don’t worry. Your parents will try to keep your activities schedule the same or work it out the best they can. It can be frustrating and aggravating dealing with all these new changes, so don’t be afraid to express your thoughts and opinions. You can talk to your parents about how to keep your activity schedule similar to how it had been. You can tell your parents which sport or activity you love the most, so that they can do their best to make sure you can still do all of your favorite things.